Stress: The Ultimate Intimacy Killer

One of the hall­mark char­ac­ter­is­tics of excep­tional cop­ers is the
capac­ity to go numb when stressed and keep on going. Because they have so much to do and feel it’s impor­tant to accom­plish every lit­tle thing, many great cop­ers become eas­ily frus­trated, irri­ta­ble and some­times hos­tile and cynical.

For some, rela­tion­ship prob­lems are caused by insen­si­tiv­ity to the
peo­ple around them. Self-absorption and focus­ing on your own wor­ries can result in feel­ing so anx­ious and bur­dened that you don’t notice oth­ers or their needs.

Think of it this way: If you’re dri­ving a car 30 miles per hour, you’re
likely to be rea­son­ably cour­te­ous to your pas­sen­ger. You might ask, “Are you com­fort­able? Want to lis­ten to the radio?” But if you are dri­ving 120 miles per hour, you won’t care if your pas­sen­gers are com­fort­able. You need to keep your eyes and mind on what you’re doing.

If you man­age your life as a per­pet­ual road race, there will be an inevitable toll on your relationship.

If you are fre­quently exhausted, you’ll be too tired to pay atten­tion to
each other.

If you are con­trol­ling when you inter­act with oth­ers, they will stop
reveal­ing them­selves, fear­ing unwanted invasion.

If you are a per­fec­tion­ist, your crit­i­cism will alien­ate others.

If you’re exces­sively com­pet­i­tive, oth­ers will avoid you for fear of being
put down.

If you are impa­tient, oth­ers will feel anx­ious when around you.

If you repeat­edly express irri­ta­tion and hos­til­ity, oth­ers will
undoubt­edly feel wounded, not nur­tured by you.

If you habit­u­ally do or think more than one thing at once, oth­ers will feel that you never fully attend to them.

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How to Get your Ex Boyfriend Back Without Driving Him Away

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Win Ex Boyfriend Back With Dignity

When you try to win ex boyfriend back you may feel like you need to go beg­ging on your hands and knees. You may feel that you have to lower your­self and lose every bit of pride that you have. The breakup may have gone a long way towards hurt­ing your pride as it is,…

Win Back Lost Love From Long Ago

If you want to win back lost love that is from a long time ago there may be an uphill bat­tle ahead for you. If you are like many, you have reached a point in your life that you real­ize that things might have been bet­ter for you if you had taken that other path.…

Learn How to Get Him Back

Are you yearn­ing for the good old days and hop­ing to rekin­dle a lost romance? Are you inter­ested in giv­ing a tumul­tuous rela­tion­ship another chance? Fol­low these steps detailed below and you can learn how to get him back. 1 — Keep in mind, first and fore­most, that patience is a virtue. Do not rush anything,…

How to get an Ex back

Did you just expe­ri­ence a break up? Are you won­der­ing how to go get an ex back? Almost nearly every adult as expe­ri­enced some kind of a break up, and most just work on mov­ing on rather than look­ing for a way to get an ex back. But if you are over play­ing the victim…

Does Conflict Affect Men More Relationship Psychology

In try­ing to over­come con­flicts in a rela­tion­ship, psy­chol­ogy may help us under­stand why men and women react dif­fer­ently. If you are dat­ing or in a mar­riage, there are going to be argu­ments from time to time. What can make things worse is if the two people’s ways of deal­ing with con­flict cause them to…

Boyfriend Break Up Is It Possible to Get Ex Back

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Things to Learn from Women Who Dump You (guest post)

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About Me

Hi, my name is Kristina Lam­bert. After going through sev­eral breakups over the years I decided to find out how to keep my love. I’m shar­ing what I learned about rela­tion­ships, keep­ing your girl or boy, and even get­ting your ex back when you screw up. Thank you for visiting!